I'm new Need help getting online

Okay my problem is it auto pates to 3.3.0a

How do I not get it to auto patch?

Can i downgrade my patch or do i have to reinstall?

Ever time i log in it says hand shake and logiin fail need to contact support blizard

Yes you can downgrade it, go into your wowfolder>Data and delete patch-2.MPQ then go bak and go to repair and run it and it should take you bak to 3.1 as for getting to patch 3.2.2 u need to download those from sites try looking them up on google try this website
http://us.blizzard.com/support/article.xml?locale=en_US&articleId=21079

I would just download the updates, and do it that way, plus dont use the Blizz laucher, cause that will always try to update , use the the other one thats labeled Wow its in the same ( programs folder ) folder as the launcher,,, if ya need any help in the game just give a me shout if ya see me on , a list of my chars are below

Seeya in the game